Your Pelvic Floor Is More Than Kegels: What Every Woman Should Know About Pelvic Floor Health
If you’ve ever heard someone say, “Just do your Kegels,” when talking about pelvic floor health, you’re not alone.
Kegels absolutely have a place in pelvic floor rehabilitation—but your pelvic floor is so much more than a muscle you simply squeeze.
In fact, your pelvic floor is a group of muscles that sit at the base of your pelvis, working alongside your core, diaphragm, and other muscles to support your body and help you move, function, and feel your best.
And here’s the important part: your pelvic floor needs to know how to contract AND relax. It needs to lengthen when necessary, coordinate with the rest of your body, and respond appropriately to whatever task you’re asking it to perform.
You shouldn’t have to consciously think about your pelvic floor every time you move, breathe, use the bathroom, exercise, or go about your day. When it’s functioning well, these muscles are constantly working behind the scenes to support you.
So, let’s get familiar with what your pelvic floor actually does.
Your Pelvic Floor Has a BIG Job
Your pelvic floor contributes to several important functions throughout your everyday life.
1. Sphincteric Control
Your pelvic floor helps you maintain control of your bladder and bowels. In other words, it plays an important role in preventing unwanted leakage of urine or stool.
2. Support
Think of your pelvic floor like a supportive base at the bottom of your pelvis. It helps support your pelvic organs and contributes to the overall support of your lower abdominal and pelvic region.
3. Stability
Your pelvic floor works together with your deep core and other muscles to provide stability to your lumbopelvic region. It also contributes to how you control your posture and movement.
4. Sexual Function
Your pelvic floor plays an important role in sexual function, including the ability of the muscles to relax for comfortable penetration. These muscles also contribute to arousal and sensation.
5. Circulation & Fluid Movement
Your pelvic floor also contributes to the movement of blood and lymphatic fluid through the pelvic region. Because of its muscle-pumping action, it can help support circulation and fluid movement throughout the area.
WOW, right?!
Your pelvic floor is doing much more than just squeezing.
And when these muscles aren't functioning the way they should, you may start to notice changes in some of these areas.
So, What Does Pelvic Floor Dysfunction Actually Feel Like?
Pelvic floor dysfunction can look different from person to person. Your symptoms may be obvious, subtle, or something you've simply learned to live with.
Some common symptoms include:
Urinary leakage or involuntary loss of urine
Urinary urgency or feeling like you constantly have to go
Difficulty fully emptying your bladder
Constipation or difficulty emptying your bowels
Fecal leakage or difficulty controlling your bowels
Pelvic or vaginal pain
Pain with penetration, including during intercourse, tampon use, or gynecological examinations
A feeling of pressure, heaviness, or bulging in the vagina
And if you're experiencing any of these symptoms, I want you to know something:
You don't have to simply accept them as your new normal.
But Wait… Aren't Kegels Supposed to Fix This?
This is where things get interesting.
The answer to treating pelvic floor dysfunction is not automatically “do more Kegels.”
Now, don't get me wrong—being able to appropriately contract your pelvic floor is important, and Kegel exercises can absolutely be beneficial for certain individuals and diagnoses.
But here's the thing:
Not every pelvic floor needs more squeezing.
Sometimes the pelvic floor is weak. Sometimes it's overactive or too tense. Sometimes the muscles have difficulty coordinating with the rest of your body. And sometimes the issue isn't simply about strength at all.
In certain situations, repeatedly contracting your pelvic floor without addressing the underlying problem may not help—and could potentially make certain symptoms worse.
This is why your treatment shouldn't be based on a generic list of exercises you found online.
Your body deserves an individualized approach.
Strong Doesn't Always Mean Healthy
Here's another important piece of the puzzle:
You can have a strong pelvic floor and still experience pelvic floor dysfunction.
A woman can have plenty of strength and still experience pelvic pain, urinary urgency, urinary leakage, constipation, painful intercourse, or other pelvic health concerns.
Why?
Because pelvic floor health isn't just about strength.
It's about function.
Can your muscles contract when you need them to?
Can they relax when you need them to?
Can they lengthen?
Can they coordinate with your breathing and movement?
Can they respond appropriately during functional activities like lifting, exercising, coughing, jumping, using the bathroom, or giving birth?
That's where we start looking beyond the Kegel.
Find the Root. Don't Just Chase the Symptom.
This is why an initial pelvic floor evaluation is so important.
Instead of simply asking, “How can we make this muscle stronger?”, we need to ask:
“Why is this happening in the first place?”
Your symptoms can have many different contributing factors. Pregnancy and childbirth, prolonged pushing, significant tearing, scar tissue, changes in posture or movement patterns, bathroom habits, muscle tension, weakness, changes following surgery, and many other factors can all play a role.
The goal isn't to put a temporary bandaid over your symptoms.
The goal is to understand your body, your symptoms, and your unique needs so we can create a treatment plan designed specifically for you.
And yes, that plan may include a Kegel.
But it may also include breathing, mobility, relaxation, strengthening, coordination, intentional movement, education, or other interventions based on what your body actually needs.
That's what personalized pelvic floor care is all about.
So, Should You Never Do Kegels?
Nope! That's not the message.
Kegels can be a valuable tool when they're appropriate for you.
The bigger message is this:
Your pelvic floor deserves more than a one-size-fits-all approach.
Your treatment should be individualized based on your symptoms, your movement patterns, your history, your goals, and what your body needs.
Sometimes the answer is strengthening.
Sometimes the answer is learning how to relax.
Sometimes it's learning how to coordinate your pelvic floor with your breath and movement.
And sometimes, it's a combination of all of the above.
The goal is to help your pelvic floor function well—not simply squeeze harder.
When Should You See a Pelvic Floor Physical Therapist?
You may benefit from pelvic floor physical therapy if you're experiencing any of the symptoms mentioned above—or if something simply doesn't feel right.
You may also consider pelvic floor PT if you are:
Postpartum — whether you delivered vaginally or via C-section
Pregnant and experiencing pelvic pain, low back pain, urinary symptoms, pressure, or other changes
Preparing for labor and delivery and want guidance on preparing your body for birth
Preparing for or recovering from surgery, including procedures such as a hysterectomy or endometriosis-related surgery
Experiencing changes in your bladder, bowel, sexual, or pelvic health that are affecting your confidence or quality of life
You don't have to wait until your symptoms become severe before seeking support. Sometimes, the best time to address something is before it becomes a bigger problem.
What Can You Expect When You Work With Me?
If you're new to pelvic floor physical therapy, you may be wondering, “Okay… but what actually happens when I book?”
That's exactly what your consultation is for.
Start With a Free Consultation
Your 20-minute virtual consultation is complimentary and gives us an opportunity to meet, talk through what you're experiencing, and discuss your goals.
We'll also talk about what working together could look like, what your first pelvic floor physical therapy appointment will entail, and whether pelvic floor physical therapy is the right next step for you.
Then, We Get to Work
Your 90-minute initial evaluation can be completed virtually or in person, depending on your location.
We'll take a deeper look at your symptoms, medical history, movement, and anything else that may be contributing to what you're experiencing.
We'll then perform an objective assessment of your lumbopelvic region and other areas as indicated.
From there, we'll discuss our findings, your treatment plan, and the next steps toward your goals. You'll also leave with education and a personalized home program to help you get started before your next session.
Because you deserve to understand what's happening in your body and why.
It's Time to Own Your Health
Your body is constantly communicating with you.
Pain, pressure, leaking, urgency, constipation, discomfort, or changes in how you move aren't things you have to ignore simply because you've been told they are “normal.”
You deserve to be heard.
You deserve to understand your body.
You deserve care that looks at the whole picture—not just one muscle or one symptom.
And most importantly, you deserve to feel confident in your body and empowered in your health journey.
Don't just push through. Don't just get by. Get curious. Get informed. Get intentional.
It's time to invest in your core and pelvic health.
It's time to Own It.
Ready to take the next step?
Schedule your complimentary pelvic floor consultation to learn more about how personalized pelvic floor physical therapy can support you on your journey toward healing, strength, confidence, and better function.

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